Connected By Giving
Community Tissue Services dedicates the Connected By Giving quilt
to those who gave the gift of life and their families.

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Quilt Square in Memory of Eddie Albert Shaw Jr.

Eddie Albert Shaw Jr.
Born July 28, 1965
Died October, 31 2007

Eddie, or “Butch” as he was known from the day he was born, was a good son, brother and uncle.  He was a quiet man.  Most of his career was spent building counter tops.  He also enjoyed working on cars, taking care of the lawn and doing home repairs.

The apple of his eye was Haylee, his great niece.  She could get him to play with her baby dolls, push her in the swing or take her crusin on a riding lawn mower.

We all miss him very much.

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Wesley D. Maxwell

Wesley D. “Darty” Maxwell was a very kind and loving son, brother and father who loved the Reds, OSU tennis, football and bowling; but above all he loved his family.

He died unexpectedly at the early age of 48, leaving three children: Grant, 12; Mackenzie, 11; and Spencer, 9. His father died only a month later, leaving the family to plan a double burial.

The day was hot and bright as family and friends gathered by the graves.  Near the two urns stood two easels, one holding a photo of the son, the other his father.  From the rear came the strains of “Amazing Grace” as the bagpiper walked slowly to the grave, stood beside it for a moment, and then trailed away.  The minister said a few words in remembrance

The children took markers in hand and wrote messages to their father and grandfather on colorful helium balloons.  As favorite songs hung in the humid air the children released their balloons.  The brightly colored orbs blew toward the trees surrounding the cemetery and everyone smiles as the balloons lifted above the trees and into the heavens. We like to think dart and his father received the messages.

Now, when the children visit the graves they each take a balloon so they can say hi to their father and grandfather.

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Kenyon B. Sneed

March 5, 1973 – December 14, 2007
Kenyon left us in a sudden death.  His life was taken from him in a home invasion; we never got to say goodbye or to tell him how much he is loved and will be missed.  Kenyon was a loving and devoted son, brother, husband, father, nephew, cousin and friend to many. 

He could make you laugh at any little silly thing he said or did.   That was the kind of person he was, you just had to love him.  His children were his life and he would tell you that all the time.  He said “I live for my kids, and my kids are my life.”  Kenyon loved football and basketball; and during sports season that is where you would find him, at home in front of the T.V.

Kenyon has so much love for everyone and he’d let you know that at the end of all his conversations good or bad, face-to-face or on the telephone.  “I love you” never goodbye, because it was to final.

No farewell words ever spoken, no time to say goodbye.  You were gone before we knew it and only God knows why.  Your memories and picture is our keepsake.  The love we shared will be carried in our hearts!!!  We love and miss you Kenyon.

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Jeff Cummings

 

 

 

 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Sarah Lynn King

 

 

 

 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Kenneth James Kessler

 

 

 

 

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My Last Request

Please don’t say that I gave up, just say that I gave in.  Don’t say I lost the battle, for it was God’s war to win.

Please don’t say how good I was but that I did my best.  Just say I tried to do what’s right, to give the most I could and not too less.

Please don’t give me wings or a halo that’s for God to do.  I want no more than I deserve, no extra just my due.  Please don’t give me flowers or talk in harsh tones.

Don’t be concerned about me now; I’m well with God for I have made it home.  Don’t talk about what could have been its over and it’s done.  Just see to all my family’s needs, for the battle has been won.

When you draw a picture of me, don’t draw it as a saint. I’ve done some good I’ve done some wrong so use all of your paint.

Don’t just remember all the good times, but also remember the bad.  For life is full of many things some happy and some sad.

But if you must do something then I have only one request, forgive me for the wrong I’ve done and with the love that is left, thank God for my soul is resting.  Thank God for my last request.

Do remember my smile and laughter.  Remember the happiness and loving care for others shared. This is not the end it is a beginning.

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of David J. Touw

August 9, 1952 – January 20, 2008

David was born into a small family from New Jersey.  He married into a huge Ohio farm family and loved that family from the start and was instrumental in his and his wife’s moving from New Jersey to Preble County in 1989.  He immediately became a much-loved member of that large family, his new church and the community.  Over the years David; and even before he moved to Ohio, was involved in musical activities both vocal and instrumental.  He soloed with his beautiful baritone voice in many churches throughout Ohio and New Jersey.  He was active politically.  But most important after his family was his love for God and his witness to Him.  When his work schedule permitted he taught bible classes to 5th and 6th graders of his church’s Wednesday night youth program.  One month before his marriage in 1986 he was diagnosed with diabetes.  Despite his and his wife’s efforts he endured many complications.  His ongoing efforts to cope with good humor were an inspiration to many.  His sudden passing in January left many bereft and continues to be difficult for his family, co-workers, friends and acquaintances.  The knowledge that some part of him lives on through his donations some comfort

Heidi Kimball-Touw

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of John Colin Canty

Colin was a strong, loving young man with diverse interests, living life to its fullest.  He was an avid and passionate slalom water skier and enjoyed countless hours on the water refining his skills and teaching friends to ski and tube.  Collin died while doing what he loved most, water skiing.  He loved the outdoors, the Hocking Hills region, rock climbing, hiking exploring caves and finding wild snakes.  Colin played baseball for many years, umpired for the league, and coached his younger brother’s baseball team.  He was not afraid of hard work and began mowing neighborhood lawns at age 12.  Collin had made his first blood donation to the American Red Cross and planned to be a regular donor.  IN death Colin exemplified his heart of gold and compassionate spirit as a tissue donor.  We miss Colin everyday of our lives. 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Richard Faine

Richard was my youngest son.  At age 44 I thought he was too young to die.  He is survived by a sister and a brother.  Although he had girlfriends over the years, he never married.  After his father died in 1997 he was there for me and what a big help he was.  I miss him every day because there are reminders and memories wherever I go.  Richard was very intelligent as well as sensitive, considerate and generous.  He was also caring fun-loving and adventurous.  He left many friends to mourn him.  My family and I were amazed at the number of people who came to his visitation.  After 89/11 and 16 years of working for a company, he was laid off.  He took computer classed and became a certified technician; he would have had a bright future.  Richard loved our dog, Toto who is now with him.  It is comforting to know that parts of him are helping others.  Richard would have wanted it that way.

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Mathew Zarse

 

 

 

 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Cindy Howard

Our daughter, Cindy passed away at age 44 after suffering from prolonged illness.  Despite her struggles she was able to obtain a bachelor’s degree from the University of Dayton and worked briefly as a social worker before becoming a provider of home care for a health care agency.

Due to Cindy’s friendly demeanor and her loving compassionate ways she became a favorite visitor in her clients’ homes.  She continued her friendship with some of her clients long after her illness prevented her from working.

In the community Cindy was well known for her talent and ability to sew and crochet.  Being an avid reader, she researched a vast amount of information from library books and periodicals which enabled her to make her own designs and provide beautiful clothing for dolls (especially “around the world” dolls) and stuffed animals.  In addition, much of her enjoyment came from surprising family members and friends with gifts of colorful afghans and other crocheted items.

We will always remember Cindy for her talents and willingness to share the fruits of her work with others in a wonderfully king and loving manner.  Therefore, it is felt that Cindy’s donation to the Community Tissue Services is a meaningful and proper way to continue her love and thoughtfulness to others.

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Delbert Belue

 

 

 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of James Michael Kodros

How do you surmise a man’s life in one paragraph?  Jim was strong yet tender.  He loved college football and praising God with his beautiful voice.  Jim was prudent and faithful.  Courageous and compassionate.  Optimistic.  Attentive.  He served his country with grateful loyalty and worshipped his God with unswerving fidelity.  Jim was honorable and devoted.  Enthusiastic.  Reliable and dedicated.  Jim was a quiet example of a peacemaker as he built bridges of understanding.  “Koach K” lightened the days of his students, their parents and his fellow workers with words of hope and inspiration, as well as a whacky sense of humor!  He was a man through whom others found hope, faith and hugs.  Lots of big bear hugs!  Jim was a friend to be trusted; a passionate husband.  He brought respect to the words “father”, “coach” and “counselor”.  Because of Jim, many continue to discover the peace, love, compassion and forgiveness of Our God.  Jim’s zest for life, together with the gifts he shared so freely with us, will continue to live on as we emulate his many attributes in our own lives. 

We love you Jim,
Lakmé, Gabe & Kim, Jenny & Peter, Ryan, Rose, Jack & Dominic, Tyler and Breanna 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Juanita M. Wills

Juanita Marie Wills was a loving mother, grandmother, sister, and friend.  Juanita was born on April 25, 1930 in Richmond Indiana.  She came from a family of 10 brother and sisters.  Grandma was placed in the Darke County Children’s Home, where she met Kenneth Foster Wills, our beloved Father and Grandfather.  They were married on June 12, 1950.  Grandpa lost his life to the battle of Cancer on June 16, 1985.  They had 2 daughters, 2 granddaughters, 2 grandsons, 4 great-grandsons, and 1 great-granddaughter.  Grandma was a schools bus driver for 29 years.  She drove for Greenville City Schools and for Anthony Wayne Schools.  Her favorite color was purple. She loved butterflies.  Her hobbies included playing bingo, baking/cooking, gardening, and spending as much times as she could with her family, especially her great-grandchildren.  They range from the ages of 3-6 years old.  It was amazing to see her with them.  Their little faces would light up as soon as they would see her from across the room, as well as her own.  Family was her life and she was proud of hers.  Grandma was always there when you needed her.  She was the most loving, caring, kind-hearted woman that we have ever known.  It was an honor to call her out mother and grandmother.  She taught us to follow our dreams and our hearts.  At the young age of 75 her life was taken suddenly due to a tragic motor vehicle accident on February 25, 2005. It has been a long year and a half now, but seems like it was yesterday that we lost you.  She is sadly missed every moment of every day, but forever in our thoughts and in our hearts.  In loving memory of our Mother and Grandmother, Mrs. Juanita Marie Wills, she was “Our Circle of Life”

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Robert C. Gueth Jr.

 

 

 

 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Shelby D. Snyder Jr.

Shelby lived a good life.  He was very interested in sports, NASCAR, and the Ohio State Buckeyes were his favorite football team.

He loved his children Alayna, Xavier and Keaton.  When he was younger he played 7th and 8th grade football and also played baseball.  He was a very likable person and had many friends.  In November of 2007 he started suffering from depression.  He was being treated for his depression with medication.  Some time passed and the medication didn’t seem to be helping.  In July of 2008 he had himself admitted to the hospital for depression to receive help.  When he got out he appeared to be better.  On August          14, 2008 he decided to take his own life, leaving behind friends, family and three children.  So what are we trying to say is if you have depression don’t give up.  There is help, keep fighting the fight.

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Mariamne Johnson

 

 

 


 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Lynn R. Rouse

My husband Lynn Rouse passed away suddenly on May 25, 2008, less than two weeks before4 our 40th wedding anniversary.  Lynn and I had been high school sweethearts and had spent our entire adult lives together.  He was a loving and caring husband and my best friend.

Lynn was a devoted father to our three children, Scott, Kristen and Carrie.  At holidays he used to say that his favorite present was having his children home together at one time.  Lynn was the kind of Dad who led by example and always supported his children 100% in all of their endeavors.  His two grandsons, Keith and Marcus, were his pride and joy and he loved spending time with them.

Lynn retired form Middletown Fire Department after 22 years of service.  Lynn was a generous and selfless person, who spent his career as a fireman, serving other and saving lives.  When they asked if I was willing to donate Lynn’s tissues I was able to do so without hesitation, as I knew it was what Lynn would have wanted and was simply a continuation of the servant heart that Lynn exemplified throughout his life.

My husband was a great man who loved God and his family above all things.  It is comforting to know that part of Lynn is still alive today. 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Donald Jibbs

 

 

 

 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Clint R. Benson

 

 

 


 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Carol B. Donohoo

Every so often in time
God created something of such splendor
Anyone who laid eyes on her
Knew she had to be God’s Wonder

He created in her three precious gifts
That she could leave behind
A legacy for generations to come
The kind of a lasting bind

He started with the Wonder’s heart
And filled it with deep love
A love so filled with everlasting joy
One knew it was a gift from above

He then created her arms
So gentle, yet so strong
To wrap protectively around
When everything seemed wrong

Before He sent her to earth
He did one more wondrous deed
He filler her with deep breathe
To fulfill a greater need

On earth, God’s Wonder was known
As friend, sister or mother
She was a teacher, a Grandma, a GiGi
And to everyone, she was like no other

With her heart she made a family
And loved them ever so dear
In her absence, they’ll have each other
And know she’ll always be near

With her arms she created a bug
That so often embraced each one
Now they can embrace each other
And rejoice in the work she has done

With her breathe, she left the wind
That will often blow her loved ones hair
Or brush upon their cheeks a kiss
So they will know she’s there

God’s Wonder devoted her life
To giving that could never cease
For all those who rejoiced in it
We know she is now at peace.


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Quilt Square in Memory of Ricky D. Finney

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Daniel McQuality

1961-1985

In 1961 on a September morn
Our second born son named Dan was born.
He was a good baby and child, so loaded with charm.
Could play alone for hours and do no harm.

Building model cars, airplanes and boats was his delight
He even liked school, getting up was no fight.
His only harsh words were for his big brother
But push come to shove, they were there for each other.

In seventh grade he chose the sax to play
And through sophomore year went the marching band way.
Then onto gymnastics and parallel bars
Came in second in city, beating many by far.

He loved his Camaro and the color blue
Co-oped at a bank, college dreams to pursue.
Then a careless driver took Dan and his future away
We loved him and miss him, what more can we say.

 

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Quilt Square in Memory of Bobby Deal

 

 

 

 

 

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In memory of...
Eddie Albert Shaw Jr.
Wesley D. Maxwell
Kenyon B. Sneed
Jeff Cummings
Sarah Lynn King
Kenneth James Kessler
David J. Touw
John Colin Canty
Richard Faine
Mathew Zarse
Cindy Howard
Delbert Belue
James Michael Kodros
Juanita M. Wills
Robert C. Gueth Jr.
Shelby D. Snyder
Mariamne Johnson
Lynn R. Rouse
Donald Jibbs
Clint R. Benson
Carol B. Donohoo
Ricky D. Finney
Daniel McQuality
Bobby Deal